I posted my "mommy rules" a few weeks ago
here and someone asked if I would add some geared towards girls. I asked a friend to write a guest post for me. She has three talented, lovely and kind girls. She does a wonderful job of being a mother and a person. Basically, I want to be like her when I grow up. Here are her girl additions...
Read out loud as often as possible, especially at bedtime.
When your daughter spends an hour dressing herself and fixing her hair, be amazed. In a good way.
Remember that drama is part of the package.
Chore lists can just as easily be made into scavenger hunts with a prize at the end.
Listen, listen, listen. Girls have a lot to say and it's ALL important.
Manicures, when done together, are an investment, not a waste of money.
NEVER say, “there are other fish in the sea” when they are heartbroken.
When they ask you to play dress-up, wear the tiara and be the Queen who gives the orders.
Don't worry when all she eats for lunch is two strawberries.
- Admit when you're wrong. Apologize sincerely.
The bottom one is the best and applies to both genders and I believe is the greatest asset that a parent has to develop a lasting and enduring relationship with your child. Too many parents hold accountable but never take accountability. It will lead to a rebellious child. - Uncle Philip
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ReplyDeleteI loved reading this list. My dd talks just about incessantly and she loves being able to get her nails done with me from time to time. I fear that I shall cry myself the first time she is heartbroken and also when she takes more than 10 minutes to get ready in the morning. :)
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